I have a problem with online arguments.

You know how, often, intelligent debates online will often turn into annoying flamewars and pointless name calling? Well I'm the opposite; I somehow manage to get involved in random flame wars on the net and turn it into intelligent debate covering both sides' points and views. And you have no idea how annoying it is to end up in an intelligent debate with someone who, just the day before, you referred to as a racist scumbag who you hope dies unloved and alone at the age of 30.